I found this article to be quite accurate.
IntroMy name is Chad Walker and I was married for 12 years to a woman that I can now only describe as a Narcissistic Sociopath (NS). I’ve done much research on the internet and in the bookshelves on this topic only to be told repeatedly by ‘experts’ that “Women cannot do this to a man”—which is an absolute lie! They can, they are out there, they are as devious and abusive as any man and the damages they produce on their men are every bit as harsh as a man can produce on his unwitting wife. Herein I define what a Narcissist and a Sociopath are and offer identification traits for each, drawn from other points on the web that illustrate these women in detail—I also offer my own personal story, my own journey through this insane nightmare of a dozen years. I am not a psychotherapist and do not pretend to be. I am simply a man hoping to reach out to other men in a similar circumstance and assure them that they are not alone. I have been there.
In this blog, I will respect my ex’s privacy by referring to her only as “swampthing”—my own personal jab at a woman who made my life a living hell for a dozen years. Thanks honey, love ya-mean it!